Cameron Matthew Bieberle

Hey Wendy,

I met you at TCF's group in Longwood several months ago.  My son Justin James Garver died Sept. 6,2008 in an auto accident, he was 22 yrs. old.  I was checking my email the other day and saw that you had sent  an email  newsletter.  I was unable to open the message, I did go to your son's website that you created for him.  I think I will do the same for my son Justin.  Justin was my oldest son  of 4.  I think my other 3 sons would want to create a site for their brother..  Thank you for sharing these memories of your precious son.  Looking at the pictures of him and just reading about him, I know my boys would have loved your son.  I pray for you and you family.

Amy

Thank you for the the beautiful song and your loving words.  Our prayers are with you.

Wendy and Cameron, on this terrible tragic anniversary, my family has your family in their thoughts and hearts always.  Your song and poem to Cameron are beautiful and at the same time heartbreaking.  We have no words that ever can express your loss.  Yet if possible- May Cameron watch over you while you are here now, until the day that you will get to meet back with him.  Love from us, to you and yours.

Hi Cameron's Mom,

I saw your memorial to Cameron in the Sentinel today and couldn't resist coming to this website. I am so sorry for your loss. It makes me cry to think of all you have been through and all you have yet to endure. I lost my beautiful 19 year old son, Jay, just over 3 years ago. It is all I can do to hang on now...I can't wait to cross over and be with him again.

No one knows the pain a mother feels when she loses her child except another woman who has been throught the same thing.

If there is anything I can do to help you, please let me know. I have really had to work hard to make it through the past 1173 days so maybe some of the things that have helped me would help you as well.

 

Your website is great. Mine is not as fancy but I would appreciate it if you would visit it and light a candle for Jay. (John Robert)

http://jrwoodfin.memory-of.com/About.aspx

 

Peace,

Marilyn

Family, what does this mean?  It means everyone cares for one another but does not specify blood-relation! This means that everyone is thinking about him and will never forget!! Love each and everyone of you and even though i dont live in orlando anymore, does not mean that i dont think about it day and night!!!!

 Dear, the Bieberle family

 

Cameron was so lucky to have such an amazing family and mrs.Bieberle you are the strongest woman i know....i think of him everyday when i look out my back window and read my in loving memory of cameron bieberle sticker. i just hope you know that there are still many of us out there who miss him and love him and remeber him everyday just as you do...god bless

 love tara 

Hey Wendy,

 

The website is beautiful!  A fabulous tribute!  You guys are always in our thoughts and prayers.  I pray that someday you will find peace, even though, I have no idea how.  You are the epitome of "strength and love" and a true inspiration for all who have lost children.  You are ALWAYS in my heart. 

 

Love you,

Andrea J

 

Wendy,

 

We\'re thinking of Cameron every day. As Papaw would say, "God bless the Family".

 

 

 

 

Hi Wendy,

I wanted to say that your site is absolutely beautiful.  You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers during this Holiday Season.  I know our sons are in Heaven watching over our families, and I am positive that your son is teaching Gabriel all the things I will not be able to teach him.  Thank you so much for all you do, and all you continue to do for your son and family.  God Bless

Written on 11/24/08:

 

Wendy,

Thank you for sharing this.  I thanked your husband for sharing the story of your son's life, as well.

 

I read through the entire site listening to the beautiful music, reading the story.  It was especially powerful to read the link called choices and consequences.  How courageous of you to include that!!  But how important!  Who knows how many teenagers will read this.

 

As a fellow parent (of an energetic little 2 year old boy)  I tried to imagine your loss...and cannot.  I can only thank you, as a parent, for doing all that you have done so that (hopefully) fewer parents will have to face what you have faced.  Thank you for your incredible courage.  Thank you for sharing.

 

David is with Resource Development, The Source for Youth Ministry

 

Darda met David at the Methodist Retreat boy scout campout.

To The Bieberle Family

 

I have so wanted to write to you to let you know how saddened I was about Cameron.  I am Courtney Kozlik's mom.  I do not know if you know how much of an impact Cameron had on Courtney's life. When Courtney transfered to Maitland Middle School it was a very difficult adjustment for her but Cameron was a true friend to her and made her time there so much easier. When they went to New York on the 8th grade field trip she talked about Cameron and I remember sitting with you during the many meetings to get ready for that trip.  Courtney has blossomed into an amazing young woman now and those days at Maitland bring back memories of seeing Cameron riding his bike home and even our dropping him off at home every once in awhile after school. Cameron always made Courtney smile and I am forever grateful to him for that...it was difficult years for her and no matter what Cameron made her SMILE!!! I can not imagine the anguish and sadness you are going through. I could not imagine losing one of my three children - I think about you so much.  My father is buried at Glen Haven and when I go there I always go to see Cameron too. I tell him thank you for being Courtney's FRIEND!! He was always that to her - a FRIEND!! never judging, never saying anything negative - always a FRIEND to her. She was devastated with the news of Cameron's death and we spent many,many nights and still do talking about it. I tell her even though they were friends for a short time - he did teach her the true meaing of friendship - because he always had a smile for her - no matter what!!!! I think of Cameron riding his bicycle home from Maitland and Courtney saying "there is my friend, Cameron"! Thank you for raising such a caring son - who knew how to be a good friend. He truly touched my daughter's life and he will always be remembered for that friendship he gave her.

 

Lisa Bullion

To Wendy and Cameron,

 

   Some time has passed and yet it only seems like yesterday.  As a mother, I can not fathom what this loss has brought to all of you.   I only met Cameron a few times at the office, and in those few times I saw what a shy, bright, happy, beautiful and compassionate son that he was and what he could have grown to be had he had more time.  This is such a great loss.  My family who had never met Cameron,  thinks about Cameron often, we talk as if he is still with us and sometimes knowing that he is gone.  My friend Wendy, is a inspiration, hero and a Goddess for all mothers, for I see her almost every day, you see I work with her and she goes on even with such loss and pain, she is such a woman of strength that I can not even put it in words , as I sit here shedding tears now thinking about all that I am typing and for all the women that she has touched since this tragedy and all the women that have touched her and can relate to her for their losses.   Cameron is missed and loved every day, and I am in hope some way that Cam is able to see, know, hear from all of us how we love and miss him everyday.

 

Wendy, Darda and Kristen,

 

The celebration you had for Cameron's life on his birthday was beautiful.  So many turned out to show their love and support for you and to remember always your beautiful, amazing, talented son and brother.  For a grandson that is loved so incredibly much.  For a nephew, a cousin that is terribly missed.  For a friend like no other that will stay with these young people for the rest of their lives.  I was never fortunate enough to get to meet Cameron but through you I have grown to love him just the same.  Thank you for including me. 

 

With love,

Connie

Thinking of you all.  See you soon.  Take care.  Debbie Younglove

 

...I'm not sure where your heart is

but Jesus knows it's delicate

he knows your need and wants to grant you peace

Turn around and open your arms

Turn around it won't be long

Till the wounds start to heal

and the nightmare goes away

All you need is Jesus...

He will take you through the day

You are safe with Jesus!

(12/97 by LML)

 

Psalms 34  I will praise the Lord no matter what happens.  I will constantly speak of his glories and grace.  I will boast of all his kindness to me.  Let all who are discouraged take heart.  Let us praise the Lord together and exalt his name.  For I cried to him and he answered me!  He freed me from

all my fears...

 

"God bless the Bieberle family and friends.  You are much appreciated and loved by your community."

 

-the Looneys, Winter Park, FL

Wendy,

What a wonderful tribute to Cameron. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so very sorry for your loss. I know underneath the smiles you manage to muster up, there is still much pain and sorrow. I wish there was a way for me to ease your pain. I am here for you always!!

 

Much Love, Your Friend Forever

Teresa

Something so hard
goes straight to the soul;
it seems impossible to get over
and my heart is left with a big hole.

I'm trying to be happy, wearing a smile;
but I'm dying inside.
The world seems to be fading,
and I just want to run and hide.

Everywhere I go I see your face,
and realize how much I miss you;
and on the day you died
a piece of me died too.

 

Wendy,

      I love you. I hope you know exactly how much you mean to me. I am so sorry I am so far away. I want to be there to wipe away your tears and to be there for you when you need someone to talk to or even someone to scream at. I know you are angry and I know you are hurting inside. I love you so much and I hate this. I cant say I understand how you are feeling because I dont. I can only be there for you to comfort you and help you get through this most difficult time you will ever have to face in your lifetime.

Cameron like his mother is and always will be a shining light in our lives and to know him you have been blessed. I missed so much of my family living so far away. but I hope and pray that you knew and will always know how much Cameron means to me. You are such an inspiration to me and so many other people. I can only hope to be as strong as you are.

I know I have never told you how much I love and cherish you Wendy. I just took it for granted that you knew.  You mean the world to me i am so lucky to have such a wonderful little sister. Our Lord blessed me with you.

I remember when dad told me I had a little sister the day he came to pick me up at Granny's house when I came to live with dad and my new mommy. I really wasnt thrilled about having a new sissy. But I thank GOD everyday for you. Without you our family is not complete.

I know I am probably rambling Im not very good at putting my feeling into words. I just want you to know that I love you so much and you are my HERO.

I love you baby girl

ALWAYS ALWAYS

LOVE CYNDI